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A FAMILY ALBUM
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My mother's grandfather, Solomon Jurgrau, in Radautz (formerly a Jewish shtetl on the Ukrainian/Romanian border),
where he had a textile shop.
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Kenny Mann, Manhattan, 2007
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He married four times and fathered 18
children, one of whom was my grandmother, Emma. She was
the first woman from Radautz to attend university, and
earned a degree in English Literature a the University
of Vienna. She married Jakob Shoenbaum, a handsome army
officer, and soon after my mother Erica's birth in 1917,
they moved to Bucharest.
Very few family members survived the Holocaust, but Emma
and her husband, Jakob, did. After her husband's early
death of a stroke, Emma came out to Kenya to live with
us. In those days, there were no direct flights. She traveled
across the Mediterranean, up the Nile, and overland through
Uganda and western Kenya to reach us on our cattle ranch
at Athi
River, about 20 miles southeast of Nairobi, on the
road to Mombassa. The story goes that when she walked
into my parent's tiny government bungalow, her first question
was: "Where is the chandelier?" Emma never lost
her desire for bourgeois gentility. She did not like Africa
and left us in 1961 to live in Israel, where she died
aged 92.
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Emma and Jakob Schoenbaum, Bucharest, ca. 1915 |
My mother,
Erica, aged 17, in Romanian national costume, performing
in a school play as a man , 1934 |
In 1939, my father Igor walked out of
his home town of Przemysl,
Poland, just as Hitler's armies arrived. With the help
of underground collaborators, he found himself in Bucharest,
where he was housed in a hostel that happened to be run
by one of my mother's girlfriends who must have thought
that Igor was pretty cute. At the time, Erica had been
engaged for seven years to a nice fellow called Zephy.
She had been the only female student in Bucharest's School
of Architecture. As both the Russians and the Germans
made life for Jews extremely difficult, Erica and Zephy
moved to Paris, where they thought they would be safe.
Erica became an apprentice in an architectural studio.
But it soon became apparent that Paris was no safer than
anywhere else, and they decided to return to Bucharest.
One day, Erica received a phone call from Igor in his
appalling German. "I hear that you have very beautiful
legs," he said. My mother hesitated for only a split
second before replying, "Well, in that case, I suppose
you had better come and check them out for yourself!"
That was the end of the engagement to Zephy and the start
of a 50-year marriage that was not always happy, but took
my parents to Africa and consequently all over the world
in their professional and personal life together.
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Erica and
Igor somewhere in Romania, late 1930's |
ON THE WAY TO
AFRICA!
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They don't look like refugees,
but here are Erica (right) and a friend on board the soldiers'
transport that took them from Israel to Rhodesia in 1941. |
Igor opened a veterinary clinic in Bucharest.
But after only a few months, it became clear that my parents
would have to flee Europe. My father had many prominent
clients whose pets he treated. One of them was the American
Ambassador to Bucharest. One night, Papa received a phone
call from this gentleman, warning him that he and Mama
should leave within 12 hours because Hitler's army was
marching towards the city. The ambassador promised to
send a car to pick up Erica and Igor and drop them off
somewhere along the Danube, where a boat would take them
across to Hungary and they could make their way from there
to Istanbul and by ship to Israel. And sure enough, at
midnight that night, a car arrived. My mother was 23,
my father 33. Papa had already left his mother and sister
behind in Poland, and Erica was too young to realize that
they would be leaving Romania forever. From Istanbul, they had
hoped to immigrate to Brazil, but they could not get place
on board a ship, so they went to Israel, where they spent
a year in a refugee camp. At this time, the British needed
educated people for professional positions in their African
colonies, Papa was offered a job in Southern Rhodesia
and before long they found themselves on board a troop
transport heading for Africa. My mother had always wanted
to explore the "white patches" on the map of
Africa, so she was delighted.
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Papa loved
to pose for the camera. Here he is, acting the "great
white hunter" - but the truth is, he was a real pacifist
and never handled a gun in his life. In the photo to the
right, my mother crosses the plains where our farm would
be, followed by a caravan of African porters. 1942. |
My parents adapted to life in Africa
as though born to the task. For the first few years, they
had a cattle ranch on the flat plains at Athi River, to
the southeast of Nairobi, where the Maasai roamed in their
red cloaks. Unlike British farmer settlers, who drove
the "natives" off "their" lands, my
parents worked with the Maasai, who are consummate cattle-keepers,
to develop a hardy breed of cattle that could better withstand
the harsh conditions of the plains. They also grew many
fruit and vegetables and sold milk. My father became prosperous
and it was into this world of freedom under the vast African
skies that I was born in 1946.
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Masai warriors
celebrate their initiation |
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My sister Rhodia (left)
and I in 1950 - when our little brother Oscar arrived
on the scene. |
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With Maasai
friends on our farm at Athi River, ca. 1953. My sister
Rhodia (left), myself (center), and our brother Oscar
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Eventually, my father sold the farm and
we moved to Nairobi. Papa became a renowned expert in
parasitical diseases transmitted from animals to human
beings. He worked for the Kenya Veterinary Services for
many years before becoming a consultant for the World
Health Organization. He became famous in his field, and
was invited all over the world to introduce his ideas
on "human ecology" long before those terms became
fashionable. My mother, once considered among the most
beautiful women in Paris when she was a student there
in the 1930's, worked for the Kenya Lands Department in
Nairobi as a Town Planner. She was responsible for planning
the many new settlements that dotted the Kenya countryside
as the population grew. Together, my parents were a very
glamorous and charismatic couple and our house in Nairobi
became the gathering point for travelers, professionals,
scientists, artists, actors, famous people like Beryl Markham (the pilot), Joy and George
Adamson ("Born Free"), Tom
Mboya (Kenyan politician considered to be Africa's
"Kennedy" before he was assassinated), Buckminster
Fuller (of the geodesic dome) and many others. Our
house was the first to include Africans and Asians in
our social gatherings, long before Kenya's Independence
in 1963 made this acceptable.
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Our Spanish
style home in Nairobi, designed by Mama. Today, a bank
stands in its place.
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Far from feeling isolated in an African
backwater, living in Nairobi, where I was exposed on a
daily basis to European, African and Asian culture, gave
me a global outlook on the world. My parents emphasized
the importance of education, travel and participation
in community affairs, and they refused to acknowledge
the racial barriers that divided Kenya society at the
time. Nairobi boasted an international, cosmopolitan population
of aid workers, consular staff and settlers from almost
every country in the world, and I had friends of all ages,
nationalities and professions.
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Erica, dressed
for a party, ca. 1956. Papa dressed as a Chinese fisherman
at an Arts Ball in Nairobi, ca. 1960
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My sister
(left), my mother (center) and myself - all dressed up
for the Queen Mother's Garden Party at Government House,
Nairobi, 1958
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In 1968, after graduating from the University
of Nairobi, I left Kenya for good. My family stayed there,
and I return frequently to maintain connections and to
breath the spicy scent of African soil. After two years
in England and twelve years in Hamburg, Germany, I moved
to the United States, where I now live in a small village
on the East End of Long Island, NY. My daughter Sophie is now a model and actress, living in Los
Angeles.
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RESUME
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